145 - Relationship Red Flags + 9 Signs Your Man Should No Longer Be Your Man
Today, we're getting down to the nitty-gritty as we explore the 9 not-so-obvious signs of toxic or unhealthy relationships. We get it, the word 'toxic' might bring up images of major drama, but in reality, it's not always that in-your-face. In fact, some toxic relationships are loud, while some are quiet and some are a combination.
Think of this as a low-key guide to spotting what you might think is normal but actually… isn’t. No frills, no drama, just a straight-up chat between Louise & Dr. Tari Mack about the subtle signs that things might be out of alignment with a thriving, flourishing, amazing healthy relationship.
The pair talk you through:
Always being ‘the problem’ or being ‘wrong’
A partner never acknowledging their part in a dynamic
Blaming you for everything
A lack of accountability
The reality of gaslighting (and why so many people get this wrong)
One party always being the decision maker
The importance of having a voice in a relationship (and how easy it is to lose yours)
Believing you can't leave because the partner is dependent on you
Double standards in a relationship
Isolation from friends and family by the partner in any format
Unhealthy boundaries, including surveillance and lack of trust
ANY sort of criticism, belittling or manipulation
And a lot more.
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